Because my husband is generally unfortunate, there are things that can be heard from the wives who have been married unfortunately. And it is clearly difficult to make a happy or fortunate marriage if a spouse is always miserable.
I recently said, "My husband is a very unfortunate person on a daily basis and we are fortunate to do everything we do to make him happy.My children are constantly negative I would like to stay in an environment? I will consider leaving him and consider submitting a divorce or divorce because it is afraid that divorce will be more painful for my child I think that I'm considering leaving him without giving him the opportunity to send him first, but the problem is that he has been doing this for years but I am very I am tired, I want to be happy again, but he excludes all joy from me.
This is a difficult situation. It is because there is a possibility that real changes can be made with a little effort of both people. But, of course, my wife has lost patience for many years. Still, I believed that there are several things to try before she just walks around and walks around. I will discuss these things in the next article.
Have you always been a miserable husband? Or is there a fundamental cause of misfortunes being removed or deleted? My wife explained misfortune as a long-term problem, but more clearly, when first met and first married, he was actually quite optimistic and pleasant. When I noticed my husband being more negative and unfortunate, I asked my wife. After considering it for a while, she admitted that her husband eventually decided to change his lifestyle and work, then realized the change in personality. Her husband had a law degree so he met him but he was struggling.
Even though there were children later, because they wanted a higher, safer income, the husband lost the law's degree and entered the legal world of the company. My wife admitted that his work is contrary to his personality. He was very introvert and non-conflict. However, as he was a lawyer, I had to constantly exchange opinions with other lawyers. My wife sympathized somewhat, but at the end there were few people in love with work, and most people did not complain about it on a daily basis. In short, they needed money and he was the main source of income.
Her position was all bits so that he could understand. However, as his character matched perfectly with his career change, she loves that lucky, fortunate, very creative person so much if she can get rid of some of the stress and conflict from work. In short, her husband felt as if he had to suppress who he was almost on a daily basis. This will make even the brightest people at least to some extent happy. Although never protecting my husband is not my intention, I can see how you spend daily on being a person who will lose weight after a while. And, when my wife had an impact on this, I felt that I might get much better results than to make a happy face that I am not happy with.
Actually there were lots of good news here. Her husband no longer loved her and was not happy because he had a bad marriage or had an unfortunate character. These things can be changed or modified at any time, but the situation has become potentially easier to manage.
Please do not keep silent. Bring your husband's attention to his misfortune so quickly to annoy you: My wife was suffering quietly. She did not want to complain consistently. Because, if so, she felt that it would add more misery to the life of the house. However, it is not really helpful to stay quiet. I guarantee the same more. You can bring your husband's attention to his actions as if you are dissatisfied.
And here are some of the spouses who live in this situation are not realized. Very frequently, unhappy people in a relationship are not satisfied with the way things are going. They are often as much as their spouse. They do not like being unhappy all the time, but the way to change things is unknown. And this dissatisfaction just brings unhappiness.
When my husband's attitude is greeted one after another, it may be saying, "Honey, I do not know if you understand this, but your misfortune is all of us Appropriate for people If we continue to live like this we have to do something about this because we are afraid that no one will be happy.You love us Because we want to be a healthy and happy family.
Please note that I was careful not to be critical, but to give considerate sound. It is difficult to approach with this tone, but often it is a way to get what you really need. And I think that it is a potential mistake to turn your marriage back, at least before trying to fix it.
I come up with a compromise to make you both happy: My wife was definitely related to changing my lifestyle, hoping to change my husband's happiness. She did not think that just choosing to be "unhappy" in his work, it was fair to make a drastic change. However, often small changes will be helpful. Her husband can change her expertise, so he can make better use of his creativity and have to challenge conflict. Lawsuits for shy or introverted people can be a big challenge. But other areas of the law may make the husband more fit and make huge change at home happier.
The real key is to approach this with consideration. You want an unhappy person to know that your goal really is to help them, rather than condemn it to lower each one to another. Just showing compassion, the process of positive change often begins. Also, if there is no depression that can not be dealt with or removed, and depression has not occurred, counseling and self-help may be mysterious before either person walks.
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