You have been a bad marriage for a long time and resigned as your spouse suddenly asked for divorce to quit yourself. Even though you are aware of the marriage sky, you are still surprised. If it is more realistic, I could save lots of fear and confusion. As people aged with an empty marriage, they begin to consider trying to find older happiness. I decided to retire in the vicinity of those who grew up with a lot of unhappy marriages, looking for more affectionate friends, hoping to build a senior year than the previous year, decided to take a chance It was. Perhaps the first time in their life I feel the time has come to consider their own needs. And you are over fifty years old and for the first time in your life. How are you going?
If you are awaked and are shocked, there is a way to get started here. If you are in a marriage not loved, be realistic and keep in mind these things if you happen to you. If you know what to do, you can find yourself in this position.
Please get your credit card by your name alone. Even if your spouse cancels your card, you still have credit and this will help you establish your own credit in the future. It is not a prepaid card. Get MasterCard, Visa, American Express or Discover.
Know where your asset is. That is, it means an account number, bank account, insurance policy, real estate, other equity account with other holdings acquired during marriage.
Please know the experts used by your spouse. Who is the accountant preparing your tax? Does your spouse have a family-run lawyer? Who is your stock broker? Which company are they?
The problem of cash is difficult. If you have never had money with your name, why does your spouse now want it? When trying to hide money, I think that you are preparing to leave, thinking why you are doing it. But the reality is that if your spouse goes out you will need money. You need to hire a lawyer and you can support yourself until the divorce financial problem is resolved. How much you need depends on where you live. In New York, most lawyers desire approximately $ 10,000 as a prepayment. In Alabama, they may only need $ 1000. The only way to know how much you need is to consult a divorce lawyer and ask. To do this, I just watch the phone book. Most divorce lawyers will give you free consultation. But if you really find yourself during divorce, you will not hire your attorney from the phone book. Since so many people are divorcing, it is almost certain to know someone who can recommend to you.
Do not expect it to be pure and that unfortunate spouses will stay in marriage due to past promises. When everyone is falling in love, we promise forever. And do not think about it because the 30th anniversary your spouse never leaves. They will do it. More than 20% of patients who come to me for marriage therapy have been married for over 30 years. And they are the most difficult to help. People who decide how to spend the last good year of their lives usually decided to give it a lot of thought and go. Everyone can quit marriage at any time. If you are in this type of wedding, please plan smart and advance. The fear, confusion, emotional confusion you feel will hinder you clearly thinking. It never gets hurt.
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