My wife, Lynn, 31 years, lost her life to glioblastoma in 2010 after a battle lasting nearly four years against a fatal illness. Glioblastoma is a fourth stage brain tumor known as its rapid growth and repetitive feature. As a caregiver for her family, I learned about the many topics that appear during the care of a person facing a life-threatening illness. In this article I will explain topics of topics and how to prepare a way of living will be helpful for homecoming and how to help. I hope that the lessons learned will encourage me to make a will to live.
Regardless of the good intent at the earliest stages of life, neither Lynn nor I did so in order to prepare the will to live. After her initial brain surgery and recovery, we provided both the will of lawyers' living will and the power of medical care. We prepared a living will and documented Lynne's advanced instructions and we were able to discuss Lynne's decision on the end of life. The lawyer 's healthcare power enabled me to represent Lynn when she was unable to make her own decisions. The discussion and documentation we had for legal purposes helped me significantly during the last week of my life and several weeks after her death. The decision I made for Lynne knew that what she wanted raised a heavy weight from my heart. The suspicion that came into my mind after death was a little relaxed, as I knew that I conformed to her desire.
Many stories that Lynn and I talked about death and death during illness were the most important to the recovery of my sorrow. Families publicly communicating about death tend to be better than families with less communication (as quoted in black, Carmon, Western, Miller, Pearson, & Fowler, 2010). The reaction to sorrow is personal growth. This response seems to be the most dominant among people publicly communicating about their sorrow. Other reactions to sorrow include anger, responsibility, despair, panic, etc. (Carmon, et al., 2010). Lia and my discussion helped to relieve anxiety about the process of death. In the last month of her life, I began to feel the internal preparation of Lynne himself that day. My selfish nature wanted her to live, but she showed signs of fatigue from a three-year battle. I look back on those arguments and are part of my most precious and precious memories.
It is impossible to completely or anticipate the emotions and other concerns encountered during loss. I believe loss preparation and prediction will cause thinking and action to help minimize the loss of grief. Remembering and expressing emotions with family and friends provides an effective remedy after death. My hope and hope for you is that despair turns into hope, sadness turns into joy, you can advance and reflect the positive memories and heritage of the forgotten life.
References
Carmon, AF, Western, KJ, Miller, AN, Pearson, JC, & Fowler, MR (2010). Grief of the lost people: an examination of family communication patterns and grief reaction. Communication research report, 27 (3)
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