divorce. This word breaking the strongest thing in my heart. Are you facing that much?
Well, before starting thinking about divorce - Let 's consult. Couples and individuals. Many problems causing people's divorce may be personal problems. If you can save a marriage in some way, you must borrow marriage to your spouse and yourself for the children (if you are).
But, if your differences can not really be reconciled, here are some tips from divorce lawyers.
1. Delete all social networking accounts. Yes, it will be your Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, or other social media profile. You are about to undertake a very painful process. You should be able to share with a few intimate friends, but pasting your emotions and experiences on a photo can lead to negative consequences such as legally harmful consequences. Believe me in this.
2. Acquire new mail account. If you can afford it, please get a new computer. If you are sharing a computer, you need to make sure that there is no spyware. If you plan to contact someone (your mother, therapist, your lawyer) by e-mail, be discreet and be careful. I was representative of many clients who fully accessed my spouse's email.
3. Take out the plenap. If there is a pull-up, please remove it and review it. I advise you to always keep customers who have prepregs in different places. It is a bad idea to keep your pre-existing in the same safe. They are always missing when you are most needed.
4. Withdraw money. Especially if you are a "spouse", please know your finances. Just because you are not currently earning income does not mean you need to be stupid about finances. Please tell me about the family finances. Even if there is no statement, you need to record the institution, account number, balance. This includes bank accounts, stock accounts, retirement accounts, credit card accounts, life insurance and tax returns. There is no excuse for being in the dark. Knowledge is power.
5. Please give me some money. Depending on whether you are "spouse" or "spouse" in that memo, you need to split your account as soon as you decide the separation date. If you are a supported spouse, it may pay you to act at random and pull out the date of divorce. You can hire private investigative research to find out if the joint asset has expired, is tracking an account, etc (doing foolish actions). If you doubt a foul, if you doubt a foul, / subjectively specify your separation date, open a separate account and deposit the profit after separation in these separate accounts.
6. I will acquire a parenting plan. If you have children, you need to grasp the parenting plan. Children are not wealth, I will be repeated and divided. You probably need to think that there is a possibility of destroying their lives. And during this split it is necessary to enable every step including treatment, in order to lead a small life as smoothly as possible. Of course, please try your parenting plan as soon as possible without any court intervention. Avoid abuse and addiction, I realize that your marriage has collapsed, I will respect the role of other parents. Suck it. I think the battle of custody is attractive and I know seriously "Everyone is doing it", but because IT SUCKS is the reality, you do not want this. If you have the remaining battle, you need to fight to get a good work child rearing plan. You can do this. Engage in services of customs broker / facilitator. Work it. I repeat, WORK IT OUT. Please do not go to the court. Even if you have $ 750 million, you will not fight your custody battle on behalf of the attorney.
7. Find a place to live. Please find the place you want to live. Discuss it. Understand that legal consequences may arise when you move.
8. Budget accordingly. If the budget is never, this is a pain. However, there is a divorce from one house to two houses. You will have 1/2 to live. It does not need to "break the bank", or "take you to the detergent", but skip the French laundry and take a child to McDonald's tonight as you have to recognize that the money will be tighter a little more I am leaving.
9. Find good help. If I had cancer, I knocked down the door of the best tumor specialist in town. Same as a lawyer. Defend the murder trial, track the ambulance and hire a daily lawyer to handle the divorce. When you divorce, please find a certified family law expert who will represent you. They will claim more. They will earn it and you will get what you pay.
10. Please think about a good idea. Finally, whatever the truth, whether it is noble, whatever is right, pure, beautiful, something excellent, something excellent, praise it, like that Think about it. Divorce is a nuisance. You do not have to bother your ideas.
Like all things, do not forget this as well.
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