All parents are one of the most common problems after death, while hoping that families become civil and friendly after passing through. There are ways to avoid the problem, or to solve problems in case of problems. Use these four methods to work with your loved one, especially at the emotional and mental time surrounding the death of a loved one.
Method 1: Equity and Equality: If possible, please treat all your loved ones within the real estate plan with fair and even stocks. After my parents died, the person I love the most is that they feel light in some way. It is financially relevant, related to responsibility, or even emotionally related. If you look at your real estate plan from these three points and keep everything fair and equitable, you can solve most problems before they occur.
Method 2: Express your wishes quickly, often: Take the time to arrange family meetings on a regular basis as you grow old and to have time to talk about your wealth and ultimate wishes in a calm atmosphere. I can not judge it without health problems or emotional problems. These are wonderful family joining times and there are things that are very productive in maintaining peace. The more opportunities for loved ones to share their views, the easier the process of expressing their opinions.
Method 3: Individual guidance written to family: Also, please spend your time writing your thoughts and wishes. In addition to your will, power of attorney and healthcare instructions, tell your specific wishes for family jewelry, artwork, heirloom, goods, or disposal of other items you think are problematic please. You do not have to make too many decisions yourself by writing down these as well as hope for burials, funerals, and other important matters. The emotional tension of death increases tension and makes the tempo flare. Your efforts eliminate the need for excessive decision-making at the time of this trial.
Method 4: Appoint dispute resolution personnel. It is a good idea to appoint members of non-families to act as mediators in the event of a conflict within the family. It should be a younger person than you, but it should be respected by your family. This person should have a lot of common sense and become a good communicator. Hopefully they will not be necessary, but making it available makes it possible to solve the problem almost before it becomes a big problem. This person should be disclosed in your written description to family.
Overview: As you can see, the best way to create harmony among diverse individuals' families is to keep open communication frame and keep open feelings. If your family is geographically expended, you can always arrange meetings around holidays and other family gatherings. In general, it is best to start the process with your own child and later add spouses (brothers) to the mix as needed.
Running all or part of these methods will guarantee a smoother real estate transition than if these topics did not pass until they passed. Enjoy it, please make it informative and succinct. Preparing a "family agenda" with a page summarizing your idea will make things go ahead. Always keep one point last for questions and answers. These discussions will help shape your future plans and additional meetings.
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