You may be shocked when your self-loving husband or wife requests divorce or requests divorce. A partner in narcissism plans this behavior for a while. Narcissist is a plotter. Even though they are strange to be married for decades, they are thinking about how they can benefit long beforehand about how specific movements are conveyed to their opponents. The truth is that you just thought that you were part of a real marriage. Narcissist can not have a real relationship. In most cases, their marriage is business. They are physically attractive, young, emotionally flexible, fit with the perfect image of narcissism, derived from "a correct family background" and have a strong economic portfolio, so they are partners Choose.
Narcissist who is doing long marriage (with many affairs in the side) prefers to trade so that the family dynasty remains intact. I know husbands and wives who are asking millions of dollars for "marriage" to others. In exchange for cash and other monetary incentives, narcissists are romantic and sexually free, and it is self-evident to pursue other relationships. Some partners prefer to agree with this proposal and maintain a marriage facade. Many reasons are because we can not abandon the gorgeous lifestyle that the very successful narcissism offers. The injured party may mourn complaining about it, but he or she tacitly acknowledges the non-attractive offer.
There is a problem of mediation instead of divorce. It is not impossible, but it is very difficult. Narcissist is not going to compromise. They are always right, and they do not share responsibility or wealth.
I have studied in the field of narcissistic personality disorder for many years and worked clinically, so I believe it is very rare to get a good mediation result with narcissist.
People who choose to divorce with narcissists can enter the psychological bush and win from there. Please do your homework after all of your psychological pain and the nightmare you are expecting. Study, interview and use verbal resources with friends who know the work of some great divorce attorneys and confident. Choose a lawyer specializing in divorce and a lawyer who spent countless hours at the heart of these fights. Make sure that your lawyer has a good personality worthy of your trust and that he fights for you with great patience. It is important for lawyers to understand self-love personality disorders.
When the official divorce procedure is over, an important personal work begins. Pull out your strengths. You will find spiritual and psychological resources hidden under the threat of long-term livelihood with Narcissist. If you can sorrow for research, interviews and your loss, you can find an excellent therapist specializing in divorce. Part of the healing after divorce is your aggressive effort to redirect your life. Please call your closest friend. Let's preserve physical, mental and emotional health. Please open to discover ways to heal yourself through physical exercise, yoga, meditation, support group. Once all of your work is done, you can lead a more quiet, healthy, more peaceful and creative life - to share with you who will follow your new path in your life belonging to you life. One day, you can give excellent advice to other spouses to succeed in Narcissist's divorce.
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