Since the dawn of Homo sapiens, we are exploring and experiencing and trying to decipher the secret code of love. Many of us seem to have forgotten that lack of free love is earlier. From aristocrats to slaves, marriage and relationships are often given as individual orders and options with higher power and authority for political, religious, material and personal benefits. In this way, there is a tragedy of great love of "Romeo and Jurriette" and "Averad and Heroize". There are countless people who have been rudely persecuted in the expression of ruthless love. These tragic romance stories wondered many of us. Why is it so difficult to love?
Liberty 's love has made much progress in the 21st century through human evolution. Love experience, technology advancement, and culture change. In today's more liberal society, you will be given the freedom to choose and express respect and hope for affectionate subjects with little or no influence. However, in a society where we can freely choose what we want to love, there are various causes of divorce rate increase, marriage rate reduction, marriage delay.
Duality of love
But while you follow the model of "Abelard and Heloise" love we follow until the end of hell, you are just one of the 100 people I am seeing and what is your name? We will come with the universal conditions of pleasure and pain, together with love and ultimate collapse. Regardless of how much we love, we have nothing to do with it. No matter how much wealth and power it has, it is still subordinate to others. Emotional and physical crime.
So, if you know the final end of love and relationship, why is it continuing pursuit of love as many sleeping as possible, whatever it is in the form of a false lonely relationship What? What do you pursue by teens, 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, and the moment of death? And looking back on our lives, I regret the times when we are not suffering more, the injured people, and the most painful people. Too late.
Pleasure and pain are twin brothers of love. We can not expect other things. I think that we deserve love like God. It is the responsibility of someone else to make us happy. If we want to love like God, we should do work like god. If we do not want to experience judgment, disappointment, suffering in opening our hearts and experiencing love, how can we ask for love that brings happiness to us? If we do not want to overcome the conditions of our ego and karma, how can we reveal the love that brings meaning to us? If we do not mind souling our soul, how can we live without pain?
True nature of love
Perhaps we can help each other and think of the experience of love and separation in various ways as individuals to learn and master: promises, marriage, affair, rejection, betrayal, abandonment. So, even in the face of repeated failures, disappointments and hurting, we are hard to give up, we pursue the truth of love, continue to learn and understand. In doing so, we can anticipate the rise of daily interactions and constant changes in human relations.
I learn not to waste energy on trivial questions such as why I have never responded to my text or have not called me. In our values we do not doubt its value because the one we love selects others and we respect the choice and will of ours. The rest of my life is disappointing and I will not hurt people's betrayal. We are not taking easy route of love at the expense of others.
Beyond our experience and learning, love is no longer yours, me, him, her, or ours. Liberating us from our pain, fear, regret, shame, guilt, delusions is that we can transcend our limited perception and love.
We can overcome the conditional desires that direct our thoughts, beliefs, and behavior in relationships. We will demonstrate wisdom and courage that keeps the truth in our hearts and not subjecting us to our fears and sufferings for short term pleasure and benefit.
In experiencing the beginning and the end of all human love relationships and related pleasures and sufferings, we learn unconditional acceptance, forgiveness, love.
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